The idea behind this blog has been a topic that I have wrestled with in my head for a long time. Many times I feel like I failed to live up to what I wanted to be and ultimately feel that has let my family down. I wanted to do more and be able to provide my family...

I've seen or heard others often say I don't like to hear my own voice or I don't like how I look in a photo. We spend our life time worrying about how we look and how others see us. What do you see when you look in the mirror? There are two side to this, one will say...

You hear it all too often, they have a ton of potential.  Or wait till you reach your potential.  We spend a lifetime looking back or planning the future instead of living in the now. As a coach I've been guilty of saying it myself, that player has some potential,...

In sports we often hear the phrases;  Win at all costs, Win or go home, and so on.  I could make this post all about winning catchphrases. At the end of day do you have to win to build a winner.  Some will argue yes you have to win, if you're not a winner you're a...

I see it everyday in sports, some are afraid to compete. College sports has become a perfect example as kids continue to transfer from school to school.  A lot of those transfers come as a result of kids feeling a coach lied to them about playing time or because they...

You hear it all the time, the outfit I brought doesn't look like it did online.  My favorite is when someone says I bought it because it looked great on them.  I thought it would look great on me. Many time in life our expectation on something doesn't match the...

To me the biggest thing we take for granted is time.  We chase it, we set it and we change it however the one thing we can't do is slow it down.  How often do you hear someone ask, What time is it? We always want more or say there is not enough time in a day.  We...

When was the last time you watched a game without getting on social media?  You may be one of the few who doesn't, however for most the two are almost going hand and hand. You have fans who cheer, tweet and give play by play for everything and then there are those who...

I've loved sports since I was able to hold a ball.  I was able to play sports from an early age all the the way up to the point I'm at now.  A big reason for my success, my love of the sports and my desire to coach was due to several great coaches along the way.  Like...