When your failed Dreams become a better reality

The idea behind this blog has been a topic that I have wrestled with in my head for a long time. Many times I feel like I failed to live up to what I wanted to be and ultimately feel that has let my family down. I wanted to do more and be able to provide my family...

Are you afraid to be you?

I’ve seen or heard others often say I don’t like to hear my own voice or I don’t like how I look in a photo. We spend our life time worrying about how we look and how others see us. What do you see when you look in the mirror? There are two side to...

Do you ever want to reach your potential?

You hear it all too often, they have a ton of potential.  Or wait till you reach your potential.  We spend a lifetime looking back or planning the future instead of living in the now. As a coach I’ve been guilty of saying it myself, that player has some...

Does winning build winners?

In sports we often hear the phrases;  Win at all costs, Win or go home, and so on.  I could make this post all about winning catchphrases. At the end of day do you have to win to build a winner.  Some will argue yes you have to win, if you’re not a winner...

Are we afraid to compete?

I see it everyday in sports, some are afraid to compete. College sports has become a perfect example as kids continue to transfer from school to school.  A lot of those transfers come as a result of kids feeling a coach lied to them about playing time or because they...